When we broke-up and people find out about it they aaaaalways ask… Are you ok? And if you say you are ok then they just carrying about you.. like usually, even if you had a good breakup, you kinda wants to be spoiled and have some attention and stuff. And no one thinks about that.. they just think.. Ohhh she’s ok =] Wich sucks if you are the wannabespoiled kind of person =T
But have you ever noticed that if we say that we are not ok or that we are feeling just a little bit down about it…. They start…. He was an asshole… She was a Bitch… He was jerk… She was so stupid and dumb… He was totally worse than Tiger ……..She didn’t deserve you… He didn’tdeserve you.
And most of the at least for a moment makes us feel good ‘cause it raises our ego. But if we need to hear about other people’'s mistakes or bad caracteristics then it’s really sad ‘cause it shows that we are not loving ourselves =T Wich in my mind is the most important, not to love ourselves in the egocentric way but just love and avoid anything even people that harm you.
And what I think it’s the worst part of a break up…. when you still likes the person and you have that hole and you don’t know what to do anymore ‘cause you used to talk to the person soo much time and now you just have absolutely nothing to do.. so you start to search things to do… or start doing things just to avoid being bored. …….
And then you just continue like this for a few days and you start really enjoying yourself and finally moving on =]
Soooo…I did broke up like 2-3 days ago and I do feel good ‘cause it was really bad so it was for the best really =]
And what I want to know is… have you ever had a breakup? How was it? What did you do to move on?
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